Showing posts with label First time meeting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label First time meeting. Show all posts

Friday, August 5, 2016

Meeting


After I delivered TJ and all during that pregnancy I said it was my last one unless they wanted a sibling down the road.  I figured I would take a break from being pregnant and just focus on me and my family.  Then I had this couple fall in my lap and I had a decision to make.  I have been chatting with them since February/March and I flew out to meet them the end of July.  From the beginning I've always said and felt that if things are meant to be they will work out.  I wasn't really looking for a new couple.  When I first started talking to this new couple I felt like I was cheating on TJ's family.  I ran it by them and they want to wait to decide.  I felt better having their blessing to move forward with this new couple.

This new couple is adorable and so sweet.  When Mrs. NYC told me about her infertility story my heart went out to them.  My friend carried their second child for them and it was sweet watching them dote over him.  We discussed several things while at lunch and I felt very good about everything.  I feel like this is going to be a great match.

The main reason for not wanting to look for a new couple is I was scared.  I was scared that I would think they were amazing and then it end the same as the first couple I carried for.  I want contact after.  I don't need to hear or talk every single day but a quick text or picture every so often means the world to me.  J & T have been so amazing in giving me that.  This new couple give their last surro that and I am hopeful it will be the same with me.

Anyways, the whole point of this is that I am officially matched.  I will be flying out to do the medical and psychological evaluations.  I am hoping that we have time to get everything done for us to transfer when they are wanting to.  Here is to another journey...

Sunday, February 10, 2013

Meeting THE family

Thursday night I packed our bags and got our apartment cleaned up and ready for us to be gone for the weekend.  I had my daughter very excited to meet her new friends and was just ready to get there.  We got there kind of late Thursday night so we weren't able to do anything but go to bed, which was fine by me since I was exhausted.  My daughter was so good on the plane ride to LA and was so excited to go on the big plane!


The next morning we got ready for our early morning appointment at the fertility doctors office.  Mrs. California and I got to the office to find out that we were not put on the schedule at all.  We were fit into the schedule and luckily an egg donor was late to her appointment so it worked out.  Mrs. C and I get along so great and we chatted and laughed the entire time.  We honestly have the best relationship, it is open and honest.  I feel like we are best of friends!

The fertility clinic was amazing and so welcoming.  I did feel a little out of place being there since I wasn't being seen for the same reasons as most going to a fertility clinic.  Those sweet men and women, my heart definitely goes out to. We were finally called back and that is when we did more waiting.  I undressed half of me and Mrs. California thought she was going to have to wait outside.  I told her she needs to be apart of all of this.  I'm glad she was in there because I needed a hand to hold when the cramping started.  I had a Saline Infusion Sonohystogram done.  There was very, very mild cramping.  They gave me some medicine for the pain and an antibiotic after all was said and done.



I usually have cysts on my ovaries and when they were checking everything he said my uterus looked perfect and there weren't any cysts.  He was concerned that I would have scarring from when I had my IUD but I didn't.  We were cleared for me to get pregnant now!!

After they did the sonohystogram they said to slowly get up and that I could possibly end up dizzy.  Boy was that an understatement!  I was extremely dizzy afterwards and we spent close to a half hour waiting for me to not feel like the room was spinning when I sat up.  I almost, almost asked my IM to help me get dressed it was that bad but I managed to put my clothes back on without help.  We filled out some paperwork after and then we were on our way.

It was mid morning and so we were both starving, we headed over to Mimi's Cafe and had the best brunch ever!  If you have never eaten at Mimi's cafe for breakfast you should try it!  So yummy!

When we went home it was lunch time for the kids so we fed them and then I was more then excited to lay down and take a nap.  We were planning on going to gymnastics with them and when it came time for that my daughter was still sleeping and I was still exhausted so we stayed and slept longer.  It was a great to not worry about a time frame or being somewhere at a set time now that the doctors appointment was over.  We really just hung out and spent the rest of the day relaxing and just visiting.  We went to dinner and then Mr. California had to hurry home for his dinner.  He was a chef at one point and was teaching some of the guys in his ward how to make this amazing dish for their wives on Valentine's Day!


The day we left to head home we met up with my sister-in-law and the kids and had lunch before our flight home.  I am so glad that Mrs. California was able to meet these special people in my life and vice versa!  After lunch we had a little time to kill before our flight and stopped at the LA temple.  I have never been to that one before and it is gorgeous!  My daughter loved it and it was great to talk to her more about the temple and share with her how special it was.

Leaving was so difficult!  I really wanted to stay and get to know their family more and see how they spend there days.  I knew that I wanted to help them before I met them but after meeting I want them to have this sweet Spirit in their family even more.  I am grateful that they chose to work with me and allow me to be apart of this amazing journey with them!